Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Almost Done: Checking Off A Summertime Bucket List

Summer is over for the vast majority of people by now. My younger siblings have all started school, my friends have all returned from their vacations, and even my parents seem more routine-y lately. 

But I don't head back to classes until September 16th, and I'm still in (what should be) sunny Virginia, though it's gotten a little cloudy the last couple of days.

I made this summertime bucket list at the beginning of the summer, and now it's time to check off the last few. Here's a stock take of the as yet unchecked items....

Irish
1) Host a Fourth of July party/barbeque
My friend and I hosted a barbeque on July 4 at the BF's house. While we only expected a maximum of 20 people, more than 50 people and 6 hours later, we checked it off as a success.

2) See Cork City at sunrise
I have a sneaking suspicion that the boy reads this blog and gets date inspiration from it. I suppose that's smart. It's kind of like being able to read the girlfriend's mind without being psychic or having to call her friends. Anyway, he surprised me one day and suggested we get together early in the morning and drive out to watch the sun rise over Cork. Check!

3) Start a DIY project
Not quite a check yet, but I did buy all the supplies. That counts, right?

American
1) Host a beautiful bridal shower and bachelorette party for one of my loveliest friends
Check!! She's getting married so soon! 

2) Go hiking in the Blue Ridge
See Number 3.

3) Visit a Vineyard
I must confess that when I wrote 2 and 3 on this list, I knew exactly what kind of bachelorette party my friend wanted. So we went for a hike around the mountains and had a picnic wine tasting at a nearby vineyard. Check!

4) Go to an amusement park
Still unchecked!! 

5) Weekend at the beach
Spent the whole of a Sunday at an Ocean Club down in Southside Virginia with the boy and a great friend last week. Resounding check! 

6) Visit New York City
Epic speed visit to NYC with BF while he was visiting America for two weeks. So many friends to see in such a short time, we set up a big happy hour at a great pub called Fiddlesticks in Greenwich Village to see everyone at once!

7) Host a patio tea party
I don't even know what I was thinking with this one, but it is as yet UNCHECKED!

Summertime
1) Take a roadtrip (or several)
The most roadtrips have happened. But I'm still open to more! In the process of being checked!

2) Have a pool party
I don't have a pool, so I don't suppose this one was ever really going to happen. Wishful thinking, but still unchecked.

3) Surf (as much as possible)
So far this summer, it's only been ONCE! But we did manage a couple of days surfing in March. Does that count?

4) Camp out for a night under the stars
I had this great idea to get an inflatable pool and fill it with blankets for the evening (thank you, Pinterest!) but I haven't done it yet. So, UNCHECKED!

5) Attend an outdoor concert
In this case, I think Josh Groban at Wolf Trap counts! Woohoo! Check!

6) Make margaritas
As yet, unchecked. And yet it's so simple! Sheesh, Diva. Get it together!

7) Have a bonfire beach party
 I don't live near the beach, but I did hear talk of a nearby firepit..... Hopefully soon to be checked!

8) Go horseback riding
I love horses, and I miss riding so much sometimes. Horseback riding in late summer is like the best thing ever for some reason. As yet unchecked... the boy was too nervous to go with me ;) 

9) Eat popsicles
Easy and delicious. Check!

10) Visit a farmer's market
I suppose this can happen in the Fall, too. But see farmer's markets are cliché in the Fall, and therefore must be cooler in the summer. But Dad's grown a ton of peaches this year, so it's almost superfluous. 

11) Go to a carnival
Still unchecked!

12) Hang out with friends and family
The most checks. But I would love to add some more checks to this one, too!


Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Big Changes


Hey there, blogosphere! 

First thing I notice on my beloved corner of cyberspace is the date of my last post: June 16, 2014. 

I am sorry that I have deserted you of late. I have no excuses for you. Though I'm as busy as ever, I have just plain neglected this blog, this space, my writing, and all that fun stuff that you've enjoyed reading over the last year. And I did it on purpose. Instead of filling this space with fun stuffs, I've been doing a lot of working [in the real world], a lot of freelance/paid writing, and a lot of reading of other blogs.

See the thing is, this blog doesn't have a purpose anymore. Most of my family and friends have joined Facebook and other outlets, and thus the original purpose of this blog - way back on sedivaabroad.tumblr.com - is no longer functional. A little corner of the Internet maintained and prettily decorated just to keep loved ones and new companions informed of my journeys and life happenings isn't necessary.

If I am honest, I stopped writing for you guys back in June because I was pretty bored with this space. With no sustainable purpose any more and very little to say, there was nothing worth writing about. So I just stopped. 

I never planned it to be permanent. I just needed to figure out what SEDiva Abroad was.

I think I've got it.

Some big changes will be coming to the site over the coming months, changes that will both redefine SEDiva and return it to its identity. I'm excited. 

Never fear. It's still me sitting behind this screen, and if anything truly big happens in the way of life happenings, you will still know about it. But how I share those thoughts and ideas with you has a new purpose and a new shape, and I can't wait to share it with you! 

So stay tuned - that is, if you're still interested!! Big changes are coming...

Love always, 


Bestie Travels Part Four: Cork, Jameson, and The End

This is the fourth and final part of our Bestie Travels posts! It's a bittersweet farewell to L! 

On her last day in Eireann, L and I elected not to make the grueling trip up to Dublin for the night. Instead, we played around Cork City a little bit and headed out to Midleton for the afternoon to see the great and famous old Jameson Whiskey factory. 

We ended the evening with a girls' night and some Irish traditional music in the Spáilpín Fánach. This cozy little pub on South Main Street is both well-known and well-hidden. It looks like it popped right out of Pirates of the Caribbean and it features live Irish and trad music every night of the week except Tuesday. Once a month, they even host a traditional singer's session.

L and I barely landed on our feet after a week of grueling adventure, but with one last true girls' night - albeit in a totally different location than Sunday brunch in DC - we finished of the trip with a Sláinte!

I realize this post is massively late, and you probably won't believe when I say I miss her already, because it's obviously been months and DUH, you miss her! but seriously, I missed her the second she got on the plane! So cheers, L, and I hope you can come visit again soon!! xx


Saint Finbarr's Cathedral, Cork City



On the train to Midelton and the Jameson Factory
Jameson, Home of Good Irish Whiskey


Pretty sure it's the largest pot still in the world... and if it's not, it should be.
L trying to ring the bell!